32m here and ive been on dating apps for over 10 years and think they’ve gotten worse since the whole swiping algorithm. I always do max swipes daily on fb dating, tinder, and bumble with minimum to no success. Tinder being the worst of the three. Ik irl is better, I just am not good at it with social anxiety and overthinking. Anybody find what works on these apps if you’re an average looking man?
ymmv, but for me, the cheat code is to get out of the app asap and meet in person once the app let’s you find someone.
imo, it is best for their business to keep a person in for the engagement.
best of luck on your search!