I second this. Dealing with this the way she did is of course not correct and being unhappy in a relationship should not justify cheating, but nevertheless…

Hey, thanks for this answer. I am under the impression that there is a lot of negative talk about having kids in the News/internet etc, which made me very anxious about the decision to have my own. And while I think that it’s important to vent about the difficulties of parenting, I sometimes miss people who voice the positive things about it.