

I want to say, your question isn’t dumb at all. As someone that used to do it and still have thoughts on occasion, I’m glad to know I’m not alone that does it.
!mentalhealth@lemmy.world is much more active and as long as you marked your post NSFW and added Self-Harm trigger warning on your post title, they will allow it and hopely you will get some help.

It’s a tied between Sims 3 and Sims 4. Prefer personality part of Sims 3 of being able to pick 5 traits instead of just 3 but I find Sims 4 great for customising Sims’ appearance and you can even make trans people.