They both have their appeals. XD
Bullying seems kind of nice up to a point, because it’s overt. Past a certain point though, I’d rather not.
Deception seems really annoying and unwanted in most cases, until it becomes a certain appealing meta-system, which might just help a person deal with the terror of the unknown and the ever-shifting, confusing nature of modern life.
And some people intrinsically LOVE that.