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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • It’s actually pretty easy to compartmentalize your job if you’re not directly confronted with what the company actually does.

    If you’re an elevator maintenance technician working for a defense contractor, your job is the elevators, and you and your peers probably only deal with elevators, and the job probably pays pretty well. There’s a layer of abstraction between you and the “bad” things that your company may do.

    Also, getting to make an employment decision based on “is this company evil” isn’t a luxury most people have until they’ve built some experience. Most entry level professionals are just happy to get a job.




  • Frequency varies, sometimes monthly, sometimes not. All of my friends have dispersed across the country, got married, got divorced, bought houses, went crazy…the usual.

    The one thing I need to say here is if that there is a real friend in your life that you value, you still have to invest in that friendship. Once you leave high school/college it’s not just “hanging out”. No one has that kind of free time anymore. If you really value a friendship, make sure you put in the effort. Don’t hang on to one-sided friendships where you are the only one trying, but make sure you’re putting in the effort in an actual good friendship. I know it doesn’t seem like that and you have that vibe that makes you think you’ll always be friends, but adult friendships take more than just a vibe.





  • When I was younger a person who I admired said:

    “I always carry some extra money in my wallet for when someone needy asks. It’s not my place to decide if this person needs help or not. Maybe they will use the money for drugs, maybe they need the money for clothes for their children. When I die and get to the pearly gates, I don’t want to find out that I had the opportunity to help someone who needed help and I didn’t help them because I assumed they would spend the money on drugs. Maybe they will spend the money on drugs, but that’s not for me to know right now.”

    I thought that was some of the most noble shit my early 20’s ass had ever heard.

    Fast-forward a few years to me and my new wife honeymooning in…San Francisco. My noble naive ass brought a wallet full of cash with me so I could help people in need. Nothing terrible happened, but I soon ran out of cash and we decided to start handing out food. NOBODY WANTED THE FOOD. They just wanted the money. I would offer food, and they would just say “do you have any money?”

    Anyway, nowadays I just say “sorry bro, I don’t carry cash”.









  • Sure. I agree with all of that. But I live in a suburban sprawl of a US city that is just dense enough to have lots of cars, but nowhere near dense enough to have decent public transportation…unless we as a society decided to bulldoze this entire vast suburban landscape and start over with density as a goal. It’s hot here too. Nobody is riding their bike 12 miles to work in 95⁰ weather (35⁰ for our metric homies).

    Maybe within the next few years the Netherlands will let me and my family in as refugees so I can bike everywhere on a 72⁰ summer day.

    But I like where your head’s at. Hopefully you’re young and can make a difference.


  • To be fair, you have a 1 in 95 chance of dying in an automobile accident.

    Based on modern safety standards for everything else, that’s unacceptable.

    If I offered you a job and said you have a 1 in 95 chance of dying from working this job, you would refuse. The most dangerous job in the USA is logging, with about a 1 in 1000 chance of dying. More lumberjacks die driving home than die working their extremely dangerous job.

    Not only should we have self-driving flying taxis by now, but we should also at least have level 5 self-driving cars so people aren’t constantly dying driving to get groceries or pick up their kids.